Here is the continuation of yesterday’s post, View From a Baby Room: Part One. You can get off the edges of your seats now.
First was a large, chubby baby with a giant bald head. We called him Fester, like Uncle Fester from the Addams Family. He didn’t seem to mind. His favorite mode of transportation was to roll. Often he rolled under cribs. Once he rolled under a swing and Sue kept bopping him on the head with the leg of the swing while adjusting it for another baby. We’re shouting at her to stop and she’s not hearing us and we’re all going how the crap do we write out that accident report? Baby hit with furniture repeatedly? Luckily Fester was okay seconds later. He was a happy baby.
Next up was Ralphie. We called him that because his mother dressed him in Ralph Lauren baby clothes every day. By the way, if you kept your kid in daycare, as I have, you have to know the daycare workers pay attention to this kind of crap. They’re stuck with your kid all day; they’re bored. I’m fairly certain Ralphie, who like the others would be about thirteen by now, is going to be a future politician. He could light up a room with a mega watt grin, so you’d forgive him, even if he just crawled over a line of babies, smacking them in the face with his hands and feet. Ralphie was an early crawler. They finally took him to the crawler room, which was where Thing One resided. As I found out later, Thing One was a piece of work as well. No telling what they called her. Perhaps she who would not hold her bottle, or she who army crawled.
And then there was . . . I forget if he was a Braden or a Braxton or a Britain, but he was definitely a brat. Though not as big a brat as his mother. She expected him to drink like three bottles while he was with us, even though he was only with us a few hours. He just wasn’t that hungry. But if the bottles weren’t given, she would get cheesed off. So we poured perfectly good formula down the drain everyday. Daycare workers do what they can to survive, parents. He ended up getting moved early too when he started to crawl. Later I heard that one of the workers in the crawler room, Barbara, was considering putting Ralphie and him in a single crib and letting them fight it out.
My favorite baby, yes we all had favorites, was Nicholas. He was a long, skinny baby that drove the others nuts because he had no sucking power whatsoever. That meant he could take an hour or more to drink a bottle. I loved it. I could sit and rock with him while he slowly sipped at his bottle. He was very cuddly. Later when my mom showed up, I introduced them. She said of course I liked him – he looked like my baby. Oh, huh. Go figure.
His mother breastfed, but the stuff she pumped and froze (frozen breast milk is the nastiest looking stuff on earth, I’m here to tell you) was so thin it went, literally, right through poor Nicky. We had to hear him cry from hunger. We couldn’t take it. So we spooned him tiny bits of cereal. Was it wrong? Sure. But I’d rather be fired than watch a baby go hungry. And he was hungry – nothing else was wrong with him, and he calmed down after being fed. We finally got the guts up to tell his mother. Unlike some of the others, she agreed to supplement with formula, and didn’t make a fuss. Thank goodness for reasonable mothers.
We had two baby girls. One was Gwen. Her Mommy was a breastfeeding school teacher who refused to pump, so Gwen had to wait until her lunch break (5 hours) to be fed. Fortunately, by the time I came, she could eat baby food. (Moms – please don’t do this to your kid. If you must be gone that long, leave her something else. A tiny drop of formula is better than a kid who starves an hour a day or more. Just an FYI.) When Mom finally arrived, she’d proceed to unbutton her shirt and let the girls out. I mean really let ‘em fly. It was like, wow, um, nice boobs? It’s hard to think of a conversation when you’re staring at someone’s exposed breasts. I’m not against breastfeeding here, but sheesh, a teensy bit of discretion? Trust me, you don’t want a bunch of daycare workers discussing your frequent wardrobe malfunctions when you leave.
Finally, and I’ve saved the best for last, was Australia. No, seriously, that was the baby’s name, and wow, did she deserve a long stupid name. I hate to say this, because one would think you couldn’t dislike a baby. But you did this one. I mean I tried to love her; I really did. But she made it difficult. It wasn’t really her fault. She had a mother and an aunt who both worked at the daycare. And lived with her along with the baby daddy and the grandparents. And they both checked on her constantly, leaving their own kids abandoned while they did so. At home, Australia was always held. When you’ve got ten babies, you cannot hold every one of them 24/7 (though I did try to hold each one as much as possible.) She wanted attention, all the attention, 100 percent of the time and if she didn’t get it? Watch out.
Here’s an example. We fed each baby one at a time. If a baby could hold a bottle, we let him. I didn’t like it, but we had too many babies to cope with at one time so we did the best we could. They tried to do that with my Thing One in the crawler room, but she refused. I love my Thing One. Anyway, we tried to feed Australia first, because she was the loudest. But she’d fuss and push the bottle away. So we’d move on to the next baby. And she would scream. And scream. And get louder. And louder. Her tiny face would get as red as her hair. When we got back around to her, fed her, and put her in bed, she’d shoot us this look. Mary once said, “I swear she just looked at me like ‘You bitch!’”
It was Australia and her family that helped spell my doom. Her dear auntie came to get her one afternoon after I’d had a heck of a day. She picked up Australia, who had been napping. The baby had a wet diaper. Auntie was furious.
“How dare you let her lay in a wet diaper, Alice,” she fumed. “Take care of your babies.”
Okay, see, there’s some things you don’t say to me. One of these is “you aren’t a good mommy / caretaker.” I will cut you for it. So I informed her that yes she was wet because she was sleeping and no way in hell was anyone going to wake that baby up from a nap. She sniffed and left. I was still fuming. A few other workers stopped by and I unloaded. Maximum fire power. I still remember the looks of horror on their faces. It was awesome.
Still, I think back to that place and wonder where everyone has gone. One of the worst things was to sit and look out the window at the one-year-olds. They wandered about, totally unattended, while the workers sunned themselves on the slide. We complained about it, so the workers were fired. Haha, just kidding. They were moved to another room. Brilliant.
This is not to make people with kids in daycare feel bad. I later put my daughter in another daycare – after I grilled the director over the coals. I did my homework that time, and you can bet I made sure she was well taken care of. Still, I can’t say I was that sad to be fired from my job five months later. It is hard, very hard, to leave your baby behind. I know. I’ve had a view from both sides of the baby room.
Baby fight!!! Bop!! LOL…
That was a really cute picture. And I’m telling you, those guys would fight it out. Starts early, I guess.
Lezbehonest here, that 4th picture made me drool a bit! LOL! I know, I’ve got a sick mind – sorry 😉
Okay, back tot the original point of the post – I cannot believe a mother refused to pump for her baby! That’s akin to child abuse! Also, why in the world would you have woken a baby to change their diaper? Is that even a thing? I assume if the baby is sleeping through it, then they are okay until they wake up.
All the kids that were in my room are now in the 15-16 year old range and I see their pictures on FB (I am “friends” with some of their moms). It’s so surreal that they kept growing up after I left! It also makes me feel really old!
Not just for the men, but some of the ladies tooo!
Yes, I cannot believe she wanted me to violate the “do not wake up the baby EVER” rule, especially that baby who was such a horror while awake. My dad and brother would look at my babies, sleeping with their heads crooked over funny and attempt to adjust them and my mother and I would hiss “Nooooo!” If she fell asleep that way, then clearly she’s comfortable enough. They’re made of rubber practically at that stage anyway.
I haven’t seen any of my babies since my time there. I’m sure I would no longer recognize them!
Heh heh…boobies. Were there words in this post?
LOL! My thoughts exactly Twindaddy!
Never ever ever ever ever wake a sleeping baby. You just don’t do that. You don’t! I’ve only been doing this parenting thing for 5 months and I learned that lesson on day 1!!! I’m not sure I even needed to learn the lesson, it’s innate knowledge isn’t it?
Fun tip for frozen breast milk – I have a tiny crock pot, and when the Queen is going to be gone for a long time, I plug it in and just leave hot water going all day long – then I can pop the container out of the freezer and throw it in there whenever the Prince gets hungry, voila, warm milk that much faster.
Can’t believe that one mom would let her child go hungry rather than pump… I may not get to voice an opinion on this because I will never have to pump, but the Queen would be outraged!
Yeah, that’s pretty much the earliest lesson you get there. Never wake a sleeping baby. Enjoy that time. Do stuff you never get to do, like sleep.
Huh, I’m impressed with your ingenuity with the breast milk. I formula fed my kids. There’s just no way I could stick pumps on . . . well, anyway, it’s clear you are an involved Dad and learning quickly. You’d have been one of the fun parents at the daycare, I’m sure.
Fun? Yeah… I’m thinking more “fun.” Always there, asking questions, getting in the way…
That’s the kind of parent you have to be, though. With teachers, doctors, etc. You’ll see.
I’m super excited. 😛
Someone needs to make The Baby Room into a reality show. Or maybe a bunch of different Real Babies Of Wherever shows.
Oh, that made me laugh out loud for realz. Yes, we totally need that. Or we could call it “Crib Life.” That’d be funnier if they didn’t have a line of baby dolls called that. Seriously. Sigh.
Child care – ah yes, yet another reason I didn’t breed. 🙂
If everyone had to work at a daycare first, I think our population might be in trouble.
I reckon everyone should have to do 6 months at least in day care, perhaps on a year out before uni or something, or instead of staying on at school as here in the UK they’ve made it compulsory to stay in full time education until you’re 17 which is just like WTF. If it doesn’t stop people from breeding without thinking, it will at least ensure they have some vital basic knowledge of child care, to hopefully help prevent too much sanity loss when they then do actually breed.